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Friday Reflection — November 14, 2025
This week, we continue with Thich Nhat Hanh’s No Death, No Fear: Comforting Wisdom for Life, lingering another week in chapter eight (Fear, Acceptance, and Forgiveness). Thay speaks about the “vertical line,” a continuum on which we are connected to our ancestors and our descendants . In the practice of touching the ground and connecting with before and after, we come to see that line is not fixed in time and space, and that we are much closer to those who come before and after, intimately closer perhaps, than we know.
In a practice of touching the ground, as we connect with those who have come before us, we will inevitably come close to painful experiences, to hurts not-quite-healed during an ancestor’s lifetime. Hurts perhaps passed along to us. Practice also invites us to come close to our parts in causing hurt and resisting healing, and the ways we participate in passing along our wounds to those who come after.
How can our practice connect us to that tender place where forgiveness can happen? How might we open up our own hearts, in the present moment we occupy (“the only moment we have,” Thay says), to compassion and lovingkindness? Might sitting mindfully, in practice with others, help open us to the hardest work of forgiving ourselves?
Come and sit gently with yourself and others, and hold these questions with openhearted curiosity. You do not have to be reading along to join in, though reading along might enhance your experience.
Friday Reflection meets weekly at First Parish Scituate from 9:30-11:00, and is open to members and friends of Mindfulness Plus. There is parking out front and on the right side of the church building. Come in through the front doors, we meet in the Sloop Room straight ahead.
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